My Writing Life by Barbara Graham
When I was about eight years old, I had huge front teeth. In all the photographs taken at the time, I resembled a beaver--one wearing braids and glasses. Very attractive indeed. Years of braces and normal growth seemed to shrink the teeth but, in truth, they merely remained the same size while the rest of me grew. My progression from “I’d like to be a writer” to “yes, I’m currently revising book three of the series and working on the first draft of book four” was gradual as well.
While a few authors sell their first book, it is rare, and most of us sell later work. The number of my personal trial and error books, unpublished and deservedly so, is about eight. Eight books filled with wretched prose, inadequate characterizations and flimsy plots require many words and years to complete. In the sports world they’d be called “training wheels”.
The first book I wrote in the “Quilted Mystery” series came close to being publishable but not quite ready. Rejection was the norm. Stubborn and hard headed, self-publishing was never an option. So, I kept studying and working on my craft. One day, I returned from a fun weekend at a quilt retreat to find an email from the most recent publishing house I’d contacted. Resigned to read yet another rejection, I opened it and saw the words, “Congratulations, we would like to buy Murder by Serpents.”
After checking to see if the odd noises coming from me indicated a heart attack, my husband confirmed the document was neither a joke nor a rejection. Soon the contract arrived. Later the advance. I took the check to our local tee shirt printer and had a shirt made with a copy of the check printed upside down just below the collar so if I glanced down I could read it. Inspiration. Confirmation. If I could do it once, I could do it again.
As a former dance student and later a teacher, I believe the mindset of practice, try, fail, ask advice, practice, improve, fall down, get up, listen to the advice, practice, succeed is one vital for everyone in the arts and life in general. It works if you want to do turns in toe shoes or grow vegetables. Don’t quit learning. Don’t quit trying. Few babies learn to walk without crawling and I’d guess none without falling. No one is born being able to write, or cook, or play checkers without some instruction and lots of practice. The words written today will seem less perfect with tomorrow’s even better work. Never give up. Rewrite.
For a little more information on Barbara, check out the Q&A on her website. There you'll find entertaining tidbits such as:
"How did you get hooked on mysteries?
My life in literary crime began with the Hardy Boys. I would purloin (a word learned from reading Poe) my older brother's latest Hardy Boy adventure and read it by flashlight under the covers. Many of my friends were readers of Nancy Drew but I found her less exciting. I did have a terrible childhood crush on Frank Hardy. I'm not sure I realized I was reading fiction. Never the sharpest tack in the box, I still remember the devastation I felt when learning my other hero, Roy Rogers, was an actor, and I was not watching a documentary."
Thanks a bunch for contributing to my guest blogger series, Barbara.
14 comments:
This sounds like a great series. I especially like that it's a quilting mystery - that just fits cozy murder some how. I'm adding these to my wish list. Best of luck Barbara.
Patricia, thanks for introducing me to a 'new to me' author with a wonderful series to read.
Mason
Thoughts in Progress
Sounds like great reads! thanks for sharing the info and great interview!
You have an award on my blog :)
Love the cover! And the T-shirt story. Hilarious!
Lynnette Labelle
http://lynnettelabelle.blogspot.com
Barbara,
Thanks for the mini synopsis of your life. I love it and if your interview is any indication of how you write, I'm already hooked on your books. Love the humor.
Your "check" shirt is priceless!
Patricia, thanks for introducing me to another great writer with great stories to tell!
What inspiration, Barbara! Thanks Patricia! Just what we writers need.
Darla Bartos
Very inspiring, and I love the t-shirt story. Persistence is indeed the mother of success. Will try to make it to Centerra on Sunday to say hey.
Hearth Cricket
What a great interview, Patricia! I, too, love the T-shirt story!
Really cool interview. I love her front teeth story. And the cover of her books makes me want to pick it up.
Thank you.
CD
This sounds great, I do hope you enjoy yourself on Sunday.
Safe journey.
Yvonne.
Sounds like a book I need to add to my "to read" list!
Barbara - Great message, and I love what you did with the check!! :)
PS - my crush was Joe Hardy all the way!
Thanks for the push and that you're not born a writer. It takes a ton of work, but pays off in the end. At least that's what I believe.
Great interview - thanks for telling us your story Barbara, and thank you Patricia for knowing we'd like it!
An inspirational post, thanks for sharing.
Oh, that feeling of joy you must have had when you wore your T shirt. :)
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