tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post2351972093978096666..comments2023-10-09T10:05:44.803-06:00Comments on Patricia Stoltey: Runaway Brides, the Art of Persuasion, and Katie CatPatricia Stolteyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-6144603244099466922015-02-02T05:20:05.820-07:002015-02-02T05:20:05.820-07:00No, not a public humiliation. Nor is she even not ...No, not a public humiliation. Nor is she even not sure she wants the guy. It's a long story. I'll have to write it. ;-)<br /><br />This gives me food for thought, though, in terms of how to characterize her and how to approach the whole situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-45911248987051651242015-02-01T09:55:03.891-07:002015-02-01T09:55:03.891-07:00Much better to have the panic attack during the pr...Much better to have the panic attack during the proposal than at the altar...although if the guy is doing the proposal at the Super Bowl and it's being shown to the world, that could certainly be an embarrassing moment when she runs for the exit. :DPatricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-56263754637744068552015-02-01T06:54:53.247-07:002015-02-01T06:54:53.247-07:00Oh dear. I was working on one that wasn't a ru...Oh dear. I was working on one that wasn't a runaway bride, but she has a panic attack when he proposes. Just as bad? Ikes!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-35564736650382340122015-01-27T09:12:45.290-07:002015-01-27T09:12:45.290-07:00Jemi, I agree. I'm tired of what I consider co...Jemi, I agree. I'm tired of what I consider constant jibes and jabs from some folks.<br /><br />Lee, there can't be a better topic to discuss and debate than music. I like that discussion of which group or band does a song best! It's fun.Patricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-48583389563460911232015-01-26T19:24:23.774-07:002015-01-26T19:24:23.774-07:00I don't do much on FB other than comment on th...I don't do much on FB other than comment on the posts of others and I avoid the issue driven ones.<br /><br />I might open the floor for ideas on my blog sometimes, but I try not to get too forceful with my own ideas. I just like to engage in discussions sometimes and lately most of them have been about music.<br /><br />Arlee Bird<br />A to Z Challenge Co-host<br /><a href="http://tossingitout.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">Tossing It Out</a>Arlee Birdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11663942782929929334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-43970241923874756322015-01-26T17:32:11.721-07:002015-01-26T17:32:11.721-07:00Katie Cat is growing up and gorgeous! :)
Rants dr...Katie Cat is growing up and gorgeous! :)<br /><br />Rants drive me batty whether they're online or in person. Being entitled to an opinion is different from ramming it at other peopleJemi Fraserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02214408467456320167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-12131649890736390752015-01-26T12:04:32.331-07:002015-01-26T12:04:32.331-07:00Greetings, Kate! Sometimes I follow the cat around...Greetings, Kate! Sometimes I follow the cat around the house like I'm a member of the paparazzi. I pretend I'm practicing with my new camera....<br /><br />Too bad these brides can't figure out what kind of eggs they like before they beat 'em up. :DPatricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-4452842628868698042015-01-26T11:57:00.287-07:002015-01-26T11:57:00.287-07:00What a pretty kitty! She looks a bit like my cat, ...What a pretty kitty! She looks a bit like my cat, who I LOVE to photograph :-) I take more pictures of her than of anything else, lol.<br /><br />The only movie I've seen with a jilted groom(s) was Runaway Bride with Julia Roberts and Richard Gere. Not the best story, but I liked how they tried to show that she did what she did because she wasn't being true to herself (she'd never even taken the time to figure out what kind of eggs she liked!). Still, gotta feel sorry for those guys...Kate Lansinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09582278387343120972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-12161930467091841562015-01-26T09:23:39.586-07:002015-01-26T09:23:39.586-07:00Hi Julie! I also discovered the Facebook option to...Hi Julie! I also discovered the Facebook option to unfollow without unfriending. I like it!<br /><br />As for the jilted groom tales, I don't know who enjoys them. It would be interesting to get some feedback from the readers and movie audience and find out why those stories keep coming. Patricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-78656431018985315402015-01-26T09:14:23.023-07:002015-01-26T09:14:23.023-07:00Oh the cuteness of your Katie Cat!
I agree about...Oh the cuteness of your Katie Cat! <br /><br />I agree about the rants. I love the "hide from notifications" feature and have unchecked notifications or unfollowed (even though I stay friends) with frequency. I don't believe, even once, has anyone been persuaded to change their point of view from the words of a barbed status. <br /><br />As for the jilted groom-- I either haven't watched enough of these movies or given it much thought. Sounds like a theme whose time has come and gone, however!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00741349796538313075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-72312465671705451972015-01-26T08:51:37.706-07:002015-01-26T08:51:37.706-07:00Hi Mason -- I just wish Katie Cat had a better att...Hi Mason -- I just wish Katie Cat had a better attitude about other kitties. I'd love to get another one, but I'm afraid it would be traumatized from day one.<br /><br />Carol, I think dogs are much more agreeable about posing. For that matter, they're better about doing anything their human wants. Cats expect the humans to do anything they want.<br /><br />Diane -- yes, I remember that runaway bride...and the publicity she got. Not a pretty story.<br /><br />I'm so sorry about your kitty, Susan. We get so attached to our babies. I think I'm taking more pictures of the cat than I did of my kids....but let's blame the film/developing versus ease of digital cameras.Patricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-91354303023277540802015-01-26T08:34:03.806-07:002015-01-26T08:34:03.806-07:00Your pictures brought a lump to my throat. Katie l...Your pictures brought a lump to my throat. Katie looks just like our cat that we lost after 18 years about this time last year. We miss her and wish we had more pictures.<br />I unfollow people who do the rude thing on social media. I just shake my head at those big arguments that get going.Susan Gourley/Kelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02669793865290876168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-68298485981474045812015-01-26T07:32:31.312-07:002015-01-26T07:32:31.312-07:00Katie is so cute!
Remember that crazy runaway bri...Katie is so cute!<br /><br />Remember that crazy runaway bride from Atlanta who ran to Vegas? What a nut job.L. Diane Wolfehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06425864276166334896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-64491994839929462172015-01-25T20:37:08.369-07:002015-01-25T20:37:08.369-07:00Katie Cat is a bundle of cuteness. I can get good ...Katie Cat is a bundle of cuteness. I can get good shots of one of our dogs but not the other.Carol Kilgorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745686632918324803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-73049886248644691342015-01-25T20:36:02.576-07:002015-01-25T20:36:02.576-07:00Love the photos of Katie. It does take some time g...Love the photos of Katie. It does take some time getting them use to you taking photos of them. If I get the camera or my phone, Traveler usually goes and hides but he is getting a little better at it. The first photo of Katie looking out the window could lead to several interesting stories. <br /><br />I believe in freedom of speech, but not in spouting off and being belligerent. Just don't understand people like that.Mason Canyonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10935307400882363560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-3866581853969536542015-01-25T19:17:16.258-07:002015-01-25T19:17:16.258-07:00Ha! I knew I could lure you over here if I really ...Ha! I knew I could lure you over here if I really tried. Welcome, Holly. I'm with you on the sacred, it's the strident and rude I don't want in my life. I have real-life friends who hold a variety of political and religious beliefs different from my own, and we talk, but we don't try to hurt each other. I avoid toxic folks who "discuss" by ridiculing others' beliefs. Why should it be any different on social media? <br /><br />As for spouses versus pets, my husband and cat are best buds. If someone had to go, it would probably be me. :D<br /><br />I had never considered the arranged marriage plot, but I can see this might happen in some cultures. I was thinking mostly of a Hallmark movie I watched a couple of weeks ago. I felt so bad after that movie I swore I'd never watch another one that even hinted of such a story line.Patricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-64655047021591568412015-01-25T16:58:54.509-07:002015-01-25T16:58:54.509-07:00Lovely cat! I have no pets, so I cannot indulge my...Lovely cat! I have no pets, so I cannot indulge my inner film noir director and do a goth take on "Henri the Existential Cat" or "Lucy: World's Smallest Working Dog" or whoever we've got toting around the latest GoPro camera. *heavy sigh* Well, my husband told me when we got married that I'd have to choose between him or a house pet, and... well, I've not really regretted that in 30 years. <br /><br />I hold freedom of speech sacred. That means upholding the right to be a jacka** in public. It also means the freedom to be wrong out loud, because if we can't do that, how can anyone know we're wrong and help us figure things out? If I insist that 2 plus 2 is seventy-eleven, and you patiently explain to me that it is not - and WHY it equals four, then I've learned and grown. If I continue to insist it's seventy-eleven, you've done your part and ought to leave me to my wrong-headedness (or unfriend me for it if I'm especially strident or rude). <br /><br />BUT, there's no cause to be abusive towards others in any case. You know that I am liberal and my friends are probably evenly divided along party lines and fall all over the ideological spectrum. The only thing I don't tolerate on my own Facebook wall is abuse of others. (I will admit there've been times in the past I've wished I hadn't ever ventured OFF my wall or learned what lurks in the hearts of some people I'm acquainted with, but it's not too often.)<br /><br />Of course, my friends are also wicked smart. Despite that, we all fall for the clever memes that play right into our core beliefs, from time to time. MY friends don't hesitate to challenge me - politely but very straightforwardly - when I post something of questionable value. (Being a fact-checker, myself, it's a double-edged sword and I wouldn't have it any other way.) That's what conversation and good rhetoric are for - to challenge ideas and to persuade others. Not JUST to share cute cats, surely... :) <br /><br />That said, a well timed cat video can soothe the savage beasts and avert disaster, from time to time.<br /><br />I agree with you on the "runaway bride" theme. I might make an exception for the sort that are built around arranged marriages, where neither of the couple are truly happy, and the bride - much to the secret relief of her young intended - finally grows a spine before it's too late and says, "No, enough, I'm not going through with this." Holly Jahangirihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08034708581256314628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-27485936439905160382015-01-25T16:44:49.093-07:002015-01-25T16:44:49.093-07:00Thanks, Margot! I guess they're are a lot of f...Thanks, Margot! I guess they're are a lot of folks in the world who enjoy seeing other people get beaten down, whether on social media or in "romantic" stories. I don't get it.<br /><br />That cat rules my house, so when she actually stops and lets me take pictures, I feel like a servant doing her bidding. :DPatricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-4653997962376018132015-01-25T16:35:39.971-07:002015-01-25T16:35:39.971-07:00Pat - I couldn't possibly in the least bit agr...Pat - I couldn't possibly in the least bit agree with you more about civil interaction on social media. I really don't see the need for spouting off vitriol, and actually I've cut ties with a few people who do that. As you say, civil debate is one thing, and it's necessary to solve our problems. But spouting off? No, thank you. <br /><br />Ditto to the 'runaway bride' romcom. Not my kind of thing, either. <br /><br />But those Katie Cat 'photos are. She's just lovely, and I'm glad you shared them. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-10973970489378559762015-01-25T16:02:42.416-07:002015-01-25T16:02:42.416-07:00Hi Alex -- we take Katie outside on harness and le...Hi Alex -- we take Katie outside on harness and leash sometimes, and Oswald strolls over for a visit. Katie tries to stalk him, hissing and growling. The worst is when she's inside and faces him through the patio door. The yowling and spitting is downright scary. I think I'll have to give up my idea of getting another cat.Patricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6757567191914795875.post-64668090031071051522015-01-25T11:14:24.945-07:002015-01-25T11:14:24.945-07:00She's a pretty cat. Would she even know what t...She's a pretty cat. Would she even know what to do if Oswald got too close?<br />Social media rants. That's why I don't do them. And don't respond to them either.<br />And thanks for speaking up on behalf of the poor dude who just got his heart, soul, and ego crushed in one fleeting moment. That does really suck.Alex J. Cavanaughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09770065693345181702noreply@blogger.com